I have a B&O MX4200 CRT that is a Hotel Model (Remote says hotel and many options are cut off)

When I plug my retro consoles via RGB scart it automatically puts the TV into 16:9 mode. The List button is not on the remote, on my one it says Mute instead. According to the manual and internet you press LIST and then can switch between 16:9 and 4:3

This is so annoying as I can't find any other way to get this option. When I go into the Geometry adjustment menu the screen flicks into the correct 4:3 so I can see It is possible. But as soon as I return to the game it goes back into 16:9.
Image below is CRT correctly in 4:3 mode when in the Geometry options

Image switches to 16:9 when leaving geometry menu or clicking on a geometry option to adjust the values.

Does anyone know how I can get the TV into 4:3 mode on RGB Scart without the button on the remote? Would getting a normal remote even bring the menu up or are the actual TV software set to Hotel mode?
Such a good TV but I cannot get the geometry correct when fiddling myself and when I have tried to stretch the image out I get a convex scrolling effect that sucks. I know if it was displaying the 4:3 picture I can see behind the service menu as a base I could get the picture looking much better. I have tried default settings for both 4:3 and 16:9 that are mentioned in the service manual so the problem is I get a 4:3 image, squished into the 16:9 processing on the TV, then me having to re stretch it back out in the geometry setting. Results in not great image. Anyone have any ideas?
I can get into the Service Menu by pressing Menu 0 0 Go and mess around with Geometry.
Cheers