So I just now dumped my girlfriend of 4.5 years...

[sven666]

first world problems

fuckin around = 1st world problem, 3rd world luxuary!

[guigui]

(some sentence about private life)
Friends with benefits, ITS HAPPENING GUISE!1111

Let's hope she cant read this thread. This is the kind of things people dont like.

[emphatic]

Glad for you bro.

[mesh control]

hi5

[neorichieb1971]

About the Original post.

It sounds like you have changed the rules of the relationship, but you haven't gotten out of the relationship. For example, if you need to relieve yourself do you do it or ask her to do it? Does she still come out of the bathroom with her bristols hanging out?

[Friendly]

Status update:
It's still working out fine, we are on very good terms, still do stuff together, go to partys together, etc.
[...]
And after that we just fucked for hours. Best sex we ever had. No regrets.

Heh, so basically you are still boyfriend and girlfriend, in an open relationship.

[cools]

Friends with benefits, ITS HAPPENING GUISE!1111

Welcome to the 60s.

[Randorama]

welcome to adultshmupfinder.com.

[shmuppyLove]

all 5 flavors

Since nobody else asked ...

1) Chocolate
2) Vanilla
3) Strawberry
4) ??
5) ??

[CHI]

Status update:
It's still working out fine, we are on very good terms, still do stuff together, go to partys together, etc.
She saw me flirting heavily with two chicks and didn't mind, we went to a club with some guy that wants to nail her that she's interested in and everything was fine.
On our way home we laughed about the pathetic attempts of "Mr. Right".

And after that we just fucked for hours. Best sex we ever had. No regrets.
Friends with benefits, ITS HAPPENING GUISE!1111

Lmao... ok, back to normal... Mod, Lock Thread Please

Just kidding

Here's a question: What do you do now?
ie: continue like nothing has happened
I'll give you a few weeks to answer this when you're back from dreamland

[xris]

all 5 flavors

Since nobody else asked ...

1) Chocolate
2) Vanilla
3) Strawberry
4) ??
5) ??

Mint
Black Label

[xbl0x180]

Scratch all that other crap I wrote. Sex without the hangups of being in a relationship, putting up with her s***, AND she chips in for the tacos and rent? WUT DA F***, MAN?! Some dudes have all the luck

[replayme]

Hahaha. It's funny because it's true. I've pretty much completely given up on finding someone to date on a regular basis - and this is in Southern California, where people assume there is a lot of variety in people. While there is physical variety, everyone is pretty much the same in terms of principles, values, and personality

the older you get, the harder it becomes. actually, that's debatable. a lot of women in their late 20's/early 30's wake the fuck up (halfway) from fantasy land and realize the fairy tale will
never happen.......... but women who "know what they want" are problematic as well. I lived in LA >10 years ago, don't remember too much about ppls overall disposition other than everyone was eager to get fucked up. Dallas is bursting at the seam with gorgeous women, all 5 flavors. Perky tits, perfect asses, beautiful hair. It's a fucking candy store. Problem is when they open their mouth: pretentious, materialistic (far more than your avg woman). Bust out the chloroform and duct tape.

This. The last girl was so stuck up, she'd only have been with me if I was famous/rich. Problem is, she was jus a rich little girl looking for a rich little boyfriend. But she wasn't prepared to work for it, and she wasn't exactly the Virgin Mary either. Oh, whilst she was pretty, she certainly was no model.

I can't really understand all this feminist bullshit, when so many girls just end up being glorified prostitutes. And at least with a prostitute, you know what you're getting when you sign on the dotted line.

Everyone has a sell-by date. Even a whore.

[drauch]

^Yeah to most of those quotes. I always hated dating and never tried much. I've sworn off women after every shit relationship but I wind up getting sucked into some sort of garbage every few years that just corrodes at my soul even more. Except now I'm content, compared to in my youth when I was miserable and lonely. Still, it's hard to think with your head, especially when it wants to betray you and go for that girl that you know probably won't work in the long run--or short. Women do eventually grow up, right? How long does it take? Mid-30's?

[evil_ash_xero]

Glad things are good.

HOWEVER..let me know how things go, when one of you starts fucking someone else. Like in your place. And the other person has to get the fuck outta the way, so you can have privacy.

These things will happen. If you can "Rise Above", like Black Flag...I'll be mighty impressed.

I've NEVER seen it happen. Not while living together.

And you shouldn't be fucking. lol What happens if one of you start fucking someone else? "OH, I thought we were still fucking. We fucked yesterday!".

I dunno....keep us updated. Obviously, a lot of us are interested.

Women do eventually grow up, right? How long does it take? Mid-30's?

I'm in my mid 30s now, and I'll tell you what I see about me.... Some have moved on from husband 1 to husband 2, and are in "Lurv forevah!" now. Some are completely content on cheating, and just seem to stay in their relationships for whatever reason. And some found God, and are guilt ridden not to cheat.

In terms of meeting women, and what they want at this age...I have no idea. I'm totally out of the loop. Everyone is either married or dead. Or both!

They get pretty desperate, by 40, if for some reason they are single. I mean, they are some blunt old ladies.

[Jockel]

Well, so far she has fucked with another dude and I don't give a shit.
Private space could be an issue, though.

[Randorama]

You should get your own room.

A good rule is that friends with benefits, even if housemates, don't share space (I never did).
If you were living with your best (but non-sexual) friend, would you share a room?

If you can't get different rooms, then why you don't move to a bigger place? You would already have a trusted housemate, for moving.

I lived with two friends with benefits when I was in NL, of course we had our own rooms and precise rules on sharing space. It worked very, very well, although we were really just friends to begin with.

And once things get going, get other partners, it avoids the resurgence of any lingering feelings if you have any, to begin with.

[Skykid]

You should get your own room.

You should film her and put it on the internet.

I sent you a PM btw Jocks.

[replayme]

You should get your own room.

You should film her and put it on the internet.

I sent you a PM btw Jocks.

Ha ha

Yeah, get her to perform fellatio, and then stick the video up with the title "In Your Face"!

Amazing scenes....

[Jockel]

You should get your own room.

You should film her and put it on the internet.

I sent you a PM btw Jocks.

Yeah sorry, completely forgot about answering.
Will do that now.

[Khan]

Status update:
And after that we just fucked for hours. Best sex we ever had. No regrets.
Friends with benefits, ITS HAPPENING GUISE!1111

broski the fuck!? where the pics and vids at? now that you two have split tits or GTFO

[xbl0x180]

Women do eventually grow up, right? How long does it take? Mid-30's?

I'm in my mid 30s now, and I'll tell you what I see about me.... Some have moved on from husband 1 to husband 2, and are in "Lurv forevah!" now. Some are completely content on cheating, and just seem to stay in their relationships for whatever reason. And some found God, and are guilt ridden not to cheat.

In terms of meeting women, and what they want at this age...I have no idea. I'm totally out of the loop. Everyone is either married or dead. Or both!

They get pretty desperate, by 40, if for some reason they are single. I mean, they are some blunt old ladies.

The idea of being with old women sounded awersome, fascinating, and exciting when I was a kid. Now they're just... old F*** it, fire up the 360 and bring on the pizza and beer!

[DEL]

Jockel schrieb;

Well, so far she has fucked with another dude and I don't give a shit.

Wot
or should I say
Was

[CIT]

Jockel schrieb;

Well, so far she has fucked with another dude and I don't give a shit.

Wot
or should I say
Was

I don't see why this is so strange or surprising.

[shmuppyLove]

Girlfriend has been dumped?

When will she be emulated in MAME?

[DEL]

CIT schrieb;

I don't see why this is so strange or surprising.

Its just the proximity.
If she's still living in the same place as Jockel and they've just finished going out for 4.5 jahre, then I'd think that kinda thing would mess with your head a bit.
Maybe I need to be more German about this

[Jockel]

Girlfriend has been dumped?

When will she be emulated in MAME?

Good one!

@DEL:
Well if the reason for breaking up was a lack of feelings and passion for each other in the first place, it's not surprising at all.

[Marc]

So where does fucking post-breakup come into that? Must've been something there surely? Not that I am anyone to question, my private life has been beyond messy to say the least up until the past year or two.

[GaijinPunch]

So where does fucking post-breakup come into that? Must've been something there surely? Not that I am anyone to question, my private life has been beyond messy to say the least up until the past year or two.

Not really. Generally fucking post-break up is quite common... I always assumed you'd still hook up until you were regularly hooking up w/ someone else.

Let's face it, the biggest thing to happen in a break up these days is the videos now then make it out to the internet.

[Jockel]

So where does fucking post-breakup come into that? Must've been something there surely? Not that I am anyone to question, my private life has been beyond messy to say the least up until the past year or two.

Not really. Generally fucking post-break up is quite common... I always assumed you'd still hook up until you were regularly hooking up w/ someone else.

I thought so, too.