Here is a picture for those of you who can't figure out my rambling.
It also seems like the 9th pin on the mini D Sub 15 (I believe the 9th) is missing on all of the cables I have seen. Looking up for the X6800 pinout, the 9th pin is NC or not connected. So I assume this will cause no problems?
I would love to hear opinions. And thanks for any help.