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No, personally speaking the only time ive been really bad with money is well call me what you want but nothing hurts me more now just thinking about it than the time I worked for an agency doing a warehouse job, it was a temp contract id been there around 2 months in the 2nd week before my contract was gonna end I did 19 hours overtime the following week when i was owed the money I checked and they hadnt payed me, so i went back to ask for my money and they said they had an error on their system and they will sort it....I went back another 2 times the final time I found out from one of the guys that apparently the colleague who did the PAY sorting had probably pocketed some money before making a run for it herself namely mine and some others.
Back in those days i really was an idiot because i just didnt care....I should have gone back and demanded my money or kicked up a bigger fuss because i was shy and too quiet I didnt care and was far too trusting man it was £5.50 p/h back in 2002 and it was alot of money imo to me but it was like I truly didnt give a shit about anything but getting home and playing some games
It happened again the same year too, I got shafted for 1 shift work at another place but that was through the agency....I wish I cared more about money back then because I'm not going to lie i did work hard for it but I just didnt have the back bone to stand up for myself as much or to demand things I was always so quiet and reserved and to be honest I still am to a certain extent I was that shy I couldnt make eye contact!
Other times I got shafted was through the halifax bank when I overspent on my card by something £2 over my overdraft limit they charged me £29 and it happened 5 times

.....it hurt giving my money to the sons of bitches but I had little choice I did however set up my online banking so i can keep track better and touch wood since then ive been good.
As for debts ive been good, since I'm asian our parents keep us close to them till we can save up enough for a wedding/house. Its one of those asian things

and I'll do the same for my kids when it happens and let them stay with me until they can afford their own place. I wont disclose how much I've saved but I'm doing ok I still got a long way to go but im getting there, all I do is pay my folks like £150-£200 for the month and then stick in a lump sum into my saving and try to live off like £200 for the month which really is ALOT harder than it sounds
I'm fairly fortunate that my parents have always guided me on dosh affairs my friends not so much ill tell you about 2 of them, one has a £40,000 debt (s) the other has £12,000 (p) both are white and when were at the pub they seem like regular people until they get drunk they spend money like it doesnt matter even ignoring advice from me, the one who owes £40,000 quit his job because he was sick of it....I mean I dont understand how you can pay off a debt without working? im guessing when the shit hits the fan maybe he is gonna swallow his pride and ask his parents to pay it off which wouldnt surprise me as the last I heard his mom was paying some of it off....the other guy (p) I felt so bad for him 2 years ago I coughed up £300 for him so he could go on holiday and save the rest for himself....I dont know why but i really felt bad I kinda regret it now because i heard he spent the lot instead of saving £200 as per the advice I gave him he blew the whole £300.....I was tempted to ask for the money back but i didnt because at one time I saw him like my brother I still do, I told him things I hadnt told anyone else, dont get me wrong hes one of my closest friends but man he is terrible with cash.
*Note to self stop being so trusting
