Herr Schatten wrote:No, I didn't mix up anything. It's just that I'm all for harsh criticism, because that's usually the kind you learn the most from. Even back in school the people who demanded any criticism directed at their work to be wrapped in verbal candy floss annoyed the hell out of me. The trick is not to take it personally when your work is being criticised.
There's a different between being too proud to accept valid critism and not accepting invalid critism trough. When someone doesn't listen to your critism is your fault too as you're adding it in the wrong way.
We're not really discussing attitude here, we're discussing semantics. For me, "this is crap because...", "this is not very good, because..." and "this could need some tweaking, because..." are pretty much interchangeable. The "because..." part is the only important bit.
For you, on the other hand, those statements are obviously not largely the same. I assume that you find the first one offensive while you find the latter two acceptable. Am I right?
Maybe you're not mixing the two things but you doesn't seem to follow this thread then. It was never about 'this is crap, because...' as there's not one significant reason against the game in this thread. Basicily you were defending 'it's just crap' with telling about something how it should be from the book: 'It's crap, because...' but that doesn't seem to work.
However, when something is really crap and it's just a feature of a whole game then you could say 'this feature crap, because...' but this doesn't really happen often. And when it does happen, then just because a game is not finished as mentioned earlier. And that's not what happended on this thread as someome here was clearly just saying the whole thing is crap based on his subjective point of view. And that doesn't tell much to a dev or any players because with an unfinished game, there's always room for improvements so 'this is crap, because...' is just crap.
In my opinion, a developer/writer/musician just has to learn to cope with valid criticism independently from the level of politeness involved. As long as significant reasons are given, the tone is nothing to get all worked up about.
I agree with that, but still valid critism rarely comes from 'it's crap' people. And be honest, If I would curse at you all the time but yet add arguments you would quit listen to me very quickly.
I mean wour band is already formed and pretty much experienced. Maybe the band never had formed the way it is when people would have had added harsh criticism on it all the time. Everybody is different on this and not always is precious pride involved. So, change the singer of your band and you would have one person less who's critizising your band.