Addiction to personals!
A point had been made to me a couple of days ago by a special someone. They said that they were giving up personals for life. I asked why and the answer was a simple "people on personals are addicted to it, even if they find someone they do not stop pursuing others". This raises an interesting topic and from first hand experience with personals I would agree that many men and women on the personal websites are never content with whom they are with.
See, it becomes painfully obvious that giving up personals mate no1 for a risk with no2, basically makes you a statistic in the same vein. Everyone essentially goes round in circles and ending up with nobody. Lets face it, if your on personals, no matter what credentials you have, there is something a miss with your social life. It might just be that your standards are just too damn high or your looking for a miracle, or you have 10 kids and can't get out. It takes acceptance of what you have or what was brought to you. If someone puts a smile on your face, the world will be a greater place having you smile back at it.
Contrary to what you might think, most people on personals websites are already in a relationship. They date you 3 times and figure it aint gonna work out and its time for them to go back to their soul mate they shouldnt have left in the first place. Was this before or after you had sex with them? Oops!
Also, I bet less than 10% all the profiles actually say anything interesting.
Lets start with "Why am I different?". Its always a subject matter in your profile right? Ok, so someone writes "I like music, I go swimming, I watch movies!". Woopdee doo! That just says your like EVERY SINGLE PERSON IN THE WORLD!
Then you get to the more ambitious parts of the profile. Someone likes 4 wheeling or horse back riding. Then on the first meeting you ask "Oh, I read you go 4 wheeling and horse back riding!" and are often greeted with the reply "Oh, I have not done that for 2 years!" or "Actually, I only did it once when I was 6"
. So basically we can concur that nobody is different at all, we just glamorize ourselves to hide the fact that we do nothing but slouch around all day spending too much time on the darned internet.But thats ok, we should not be ashamed of who we are! We are decent human beings after all. Is it possible to accept someone in our lives right now when there are potentially a million other of the opposite sex still hitting our mailboxes? .
Two people I met were married and never told me until at least the 3rd meeting and that was only because trouble was brewing ahead! Where is the honesty in this world?
Ive had a few matches sent to my email lately. Apparently we are compatible matches. Then I look at the picture and see a black female, almost 500lbs that looks more like a Gorilla than a human being. I can thank "Lovehappens" for the thought, but no thanks!
I started to email this girl called "Anna" once, supposedly from Arnold, MO! She ended up being from a place in Russia I can't even spell. After sending me many pictures of super model quality, she pursues to get a free plane ticket (or pocket the cash) to America. When I refused to send money overseas her reply was as follows -
You do not want to go on these conditions, not that man which to me actually means you is necessary!!!!!!!! GOODBYE!!!!
OK Anna, work on your English and stop using a translation site.. thankyou.
PS. If anyone wants a pic of the beauty just pm me your email addy
Can you find love on the internet? I believe you can! You just need to find someone who is ready to STOP when they find that YOU made them happier than they were yesterday. Remembering to STOP yourself searching out someone that will make you even happier tomorrow. True compatibility takes time and unless you give it a chance, your wasting your time altogether, you would be better off going to bars, at least you can have a drink and enjoy yourself in the process
