Okay, today I replaced all 8 NEC/TOKINS with 32 Tantalums. In short, I didn't work.
I did however get better at soldering the Tantalums and removing the NEC/TOKINS. I found the combination of flush cut snips and a
dental tarter scraper worked best. I did manage to slip and knock 2 tiny resistors or maybe caps off. They are so minuscule it would be difficult to replace. Also, I don't have any replacments even if I knew what they're supposed to be. I hope they weren't very important

Once removed, a
T12-C4 tip with the KSGER iron had enough mass and surface area to clean the pads with braid. Much easier with the right tip! I couldn't find a good T-12 tip for soldering the Tantalums in, it's very easy to get a cold solder joint. So I went back to a ceramic iron. The tips have more mass and a medium chisel tip did the job. It was still difficult finding the right angle, but it powered through the ground plane better than my T-12 tips. Not great, but better. It's still very tedious work. Unfortunately it didn't pay off for me.
I wouldn't call this debunked, as there has obviously been prior work done on this board. There were screws missing on the motherboard RF shield sandwich, possibly meaning it has been opened before. When I first opened it, there was that crap thermal grease that SONY used. So I was hopeful that this was an untouched RLOD, but that could have been applied by a previous attempt to fix (perhaps after a reball). I suppose they might use the cheapest paste they can get. I don't think it was a SONY refurbished unit as there is usually a sticker inside. I didn't see one. In any case, I don't think there is much I can do for it unless those 2 tiny caps and/or resistors I knocked off the board were so important that it's now causing the RLOD. IDK.