leonk wrote:Drakon wrote:Well then I can raise more awareness of the effects of these sorts of threads. If you don't like to see it, then join the effort to get it shut down and make sure that in the future, situations like this are handled in a better way.
1) what effects? you are being very vague. Are people coming to your house at night and knocking on your door?
2) "join the effort". What effort?? Besides you, I never saw a single person stand up for you and say stop using your alias as an example of bad work.
I personally hope these threads will not go away. They and YouTube videos need to stay around to educate people.
The effects are people following me anywhere I go online and bringing this stuff up in videos and conversations that have nothing to do with hardware. The effects are instead of people being willing to give helpful tips and suggestions, treating me like I don't care and therefore they think that spreading hate propaganda about me is the only way to "help".
Join the effort to give people a more fair chance before you throw them under the bus. Many people, like you, made up your mind about me completely based on very biased information that other people said and with zero interaction with me. You've never given me any benefit of the doubt.
I love youtube videos that show people how to properly do this sort of work, those are proper education. I don't even mind videos showing bad work (even though they don't help) as long as the person who did the work isn't named. Once you name a person that's when people start believing that this person must have done it on purpose and they start harassing that person.
The problem with these places is if you ever make a mistake people automatically treat you like you did it on purpose. The least you could do is admit that if hypothetically you were wrong about me that you're helping nothing and only making these communities worse by attacking any potential talent (or potential competition) who ever made a mistake.
I feel horrible for making all of those mistakes. I've only been trying to explain why the mistakes happened, I never wanted to try to justify them. If I didn't feel bad I would still be offering to do this work instead of turning it down.
leonk wrote:Bingo. Now I finally understand the root of the problem.
You can not differentiate between attacks on your work and attacks on you personally. You think your work is you ... And as long as this perception is going to exist, trying to make you understand otherwise is hopeless.
Good luck with your quest.
You're wrong again (as usual). I'm fine with people making angry comments about my hardware work in videos and places that have to do with my hardware work. The problem is that now I get harassed in content and conversations I make that have nothing to do with hardware work.